How to face break ups in a positive way

We often hear about break ups happening and that have happened here and there. Its wonderful to see that people come up strong in life once they have passed the phase of break up with their loved ones. It maybe due to the fact that they come to know about their inner strength once they have to go through such a phase. It is true that from deep pain comes true happiness. Most people I have talked to seem to have become closer to their inner voice, the call within...they have come into terms with the godliness in them. When they feel they are completely alone upon the loss of their loved ones, they have nobody else but God to share the pain. Thus he becomes closer to God.

"I have had the best moments with my beloved;
The memories are ever lasting and I am happy to live with it forever,
Its enough to keep me going till life end"
- Words from a lover.

After all he said, "Today I am there, tomorrow I may not be there"

He never promised a life long relation...he gave you all the happiness you could long for a lifetime in a short span. And finally due to some misunderstandings you had to break up. It will be difficult initially to accept the way the things have changed...he who had showered you with the loveliest of words may ignore you rudely; it indeed is painful.

See the words of William Shakespeare:

“If you love and get hurt, love more.

If you love more and hurt more, love even more.

If you love even more and get hurt even more, love some more until it hurts no more...”

And true love doesn't need anything in return. So if you had truly loved this person why not try to keep on loving the person till it hurts no more??

Its always better to let go than trying to cling to you...because if it has to come back, it will come back to you no matter whatever happens.

                                                           

                                                  

Be positive....Life is short...There is so much in store for you...Don't waste it over tears...Enjoy every second of life. Its ok to cry for sometime, but get up on your feet, and move on... move positively...Stay happy :)