How to face break ups in a positive way

We often hear about break ups happening and that have happened here and there. Its wonderful to see that people come up strong in life once they have passed the phase of break up with their loved ones. It maybe due to the fact that they come to know about their inner strength once they have to go through such a phase. It is true that from deep pain comes true happiness. Most people I have talked to seem to have become closer to their inner voice, the call within...they have come into terms with the godliness in them. When they feel they are completely alone upon the loss of their loved ones, they have nobody else but God to share the pain. Thus he becomes closer to God.

"I have had the best moments with my beloved;
The memories are ever lasting and I am happy to live with it forever,
Its enough to keep me going till life end"
- Words from a lover.

After all he said, "Today I am there, tomorrow I may not be there"

He never promised a life long relation...he gave you all the happiness you could long for a lifetime in a short span. And finally due to some misunderstandings you had to break up. It will be difficult initially to accept the way the things have changed...he who had showered you with the loveliest of words may ignore you rudely; it indeed is painful.

See the words of William Shakespeare:

“If you love and get hurt, love more.

If you love more and hurt more, love even more.

If you love even more and get hurt even more, love some more until it hurts no more...”

And true love doesn't need anything in return. So if you had truly loved this person why not try to keep on loving the person till it hurts no more??

Its always better to let go than trying to cling to you...because if it has to come back, it will come back to you no matter whatever happens.

                                                           

                                                  

Be positive....Life is short...There is so much in store for you...Don't waste it over tears...Enjoy every second of life. Its ok to cry for sometime, but get up on your feet, and move on... move positively...Stay happy :)

It's Rrrrrrraaaaaiiiiiinnnnning!!!!!!!! :) :) :)

I sit in my balcony and see the sunshine passes away;
I hear the rumbling sounds of the nature;
Yes, its the thunder, and the lightning comes,
I see the blue skies changing its colour and becoming dark;
Birds soaring high up in the sky, vanishing soon as if expecting something;
Yes, here comes the first few drops of rain...
I can feel the smell of the earth;
Here comes the rain with its full intensity;
Falling on the earth with all its vigour;
Bringing joy and pure happiness to the mother Earth;
I can see the trees and plants dancing to the tunes of the rain;
Yes, I can see pure joy everywhere!!

Another step in life - Play school

My daughter started her play-school...her first step to an independent life. As soon as we reached the school, she opened the gate and went inside, she din't look back. I went behind her with her school bag. We climbed the steps to her play school section. She was decent enough to remove her shoes outside the room and keep it along with the other kids shoes :) As we opened the door to the play school, she found two kids sitting in the opening for keeping bags; she too joined them and settled herself along with them. She didn't turn back to see if I am there...I was happy that she din't cry and be messy. I left her there and came down to complete the admission formalities and left from there leaving her to the care of her new teachers with a prayer to God to take care of her. I came home and described her entry to the playschool to my mother; she was telling that myself and my brother were also like that, both of us never used to turn back even to bid goodbye once we reached school. I thought I'll pen down my thoughts about her day in playschool and started writing this, and there came a call from "Popcorn", saying Malu was crying out there. I ran down to call my brother and go with him soon to see if she was fine there. We reached there in 10 mins, thank God we chose a playschool not much far from home. At the gate itself her loud cries were heard. As I entered I could see her with some friends and the teacher looking from the window upstairs. I waved at her and there her cries became even more louder :( I ran upstairs and there she was crying loudly "Ammaaaaaa...." and was urging the people inside to open the door. She came running to me with a huge sigh of relief. My poor little baby was so relieved to see me there. The teachers said it would take a few days for her to get adjusted to the new environment. Hope she gets used to the ways of life, this teaching, school, teachers everything...